We have explored the differences between a melt-down and a temper tantrum, and addressed ways to deal with and train a child whose emotional implosions put him or her at risk for future difficulties. Now…Read More
This year Scarlet started kindergarten. She’d looked forward to going to school for months, counting the days until what seemed the best possible reward for turning five. Everything about the idea of school appealed to Scarlet’s super-extroverted, always-engaged outlook on life.Read More
In general I was wondering what sort of language or actions would we use to teach our two daughters emotional self-control.Read More
My mom slipped quietly into the presence of the Father just a couple weeks ago.
She died of Alzheimer’s disease, which means that the past few years have been confusing and discouraging and just… hard.Read More
Question: How can we minimize or (even eliminate) whining?Read More
Question: How do you create/foster empathy in a child who just doesn't seem to realize other's reactions and feelings?
Since the beginning of summer we have been exploring the topic of sibling rivalry and conflict resolution. By now your kids have some tools to utilize when they experience those inevitable times when they step on each other’s toes.Read More
And before we can teach our kids the tricky business of conflict resolution, we have to learn ourselves, don’t we?
I dare say most of us find conflict easier to avoid than to resolve.Read More
Like many of you, I grew up in a home filled with good-hearted people who didn’t have a clue how to deal with conflict.
To both of my parents conflict was a naughty word, associated with immense personal pain that had never been faced or healed.Read More
It’s mid-summer now; routines have been abolished, boredom has set in. It’s too hot to play outside, you’re getting on each other’s nerves; the kids are squabbling.
Now what?Read More
Have you heard the seemingly tried and true advice given to parents of bickering brothers and sisters? It goes something like this: Don’t intervene! They have to learn how to work things out for themselves. Just let them.Read More
A few weeks ago I got an email from a woman, asking my advice about the constant conflict in her home between her two daughters. This woman had never had a sister herself, but she’d imagined how satisfying it would be to have a sister with whom she could share all the ups and downs of her life.Read More
Summer is almost here: sunshine, barbeques, swim parties, camping, farmer’s markets— and conflict between the kids.Read More
Just a couple of months ago our grandson, Duke, got baptized. He’d been talking about it for months, but his parents weren’t sure he was ready. At 7 years old, they knew he stood a possibility of not remembering.Read More
Do you know what to do when you get angry? Dealing with anger and teaching your kids to do the same is really, really important! James chapter one tells us why:Read More